Wedding Ceremony
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The Church
The wedding mass and ceremony will take place at St. Anne Catholic Church, a Latin mass parish in the Barrio Logan neighborhood of San Diego. The church is entrusted by the Diocese of San Diego to the care of the Priestly Fraternity of Saint Peter.
Parking can be found at the nearby LMEC school parking lot on 28th street, denoted by the "P" on the map below.
Church address: 2337 Irving Ave, San Diego, CA 92113
Why the Latin Mass?
The Traditional Latin Mass has fed the spiritual lives of Tony and Vy since the beginning of their relationship. They desire the Traditional Latin Mass for its timeless beauty and profound sense of sacredness. Entranced by its rich history and solemn rituals, they are drawn to its deep reverence, where the sacred mysteries are celebrated with awe-inspiring solemnity, fostering a profound connection to the traditions of their faith.
You can learn more about the Traditional Latin Mass at https://www.latinmass.com/learn-more.
Etiquette in the Church
A Catholic Church is a holy place. Our Lord dwells there as He dwells nowhere else except in Heaven. In keeping with the holiness of this place, we ask that you:
Silence your cell phones before entering the church
Refrain from talking before the wedding ceremony and Mass
Refrain from any clapping and cheering while in the church
This may be done once you've exited the church. If you wish, you may follow along during the Sacrament of Matrimony and Nuptial Mass with the silver Nuptial Mass booklets that can be found in the back of the church.
In order to receive Holy Communion in the Catholic Church one must be a practicing Catholic - someone in the state of grace (not mindful of any unconfessed mortal sins) who holds all the truths of the Catholic faith, who goes to church every Sunday, and who avails himself of confession as needed.
Holy Communion is received kneeling at the Communion rail (unless you're unable to kneel), and is only given on the tongue, not in the hand. When the priest stands in front of you, open your mouth wide, and extend your tongue to the outer edge of your lower lip. You do not respond "Amen" as the priest says this for you.
How to recieve Holy Communion on the tongue: https://www.youtube.com/clip/Ugkx1eMuHVnssNMoIl6tIWjU-ZEdUcy4ZP2m
Dress Code for Church
All who come to the church are expected to dress with modesty and with due respect for our Lord's presence. Clothing is to conceal not reveal.
Some norms for women include the following:
necklines should not be revealing (no plunging or deep-v necklines), backs must be covered
no sleeveless dresses or blouses
dresses and skirts should cover the knees when sitting
clothes should not be skin tight and fabric should not be see-through
wearing a veil (optional)
Some norms for men include:
collared shirts and full length slacks
jeans are generally considered not appropriate
TNTT/VEYM Members:
All members in good standing are invited to attend the ceremony in full TNTT uniform. Long sleeved shirts are preferred.